If you can get over the fact that I say, "crisises" in this video then keep reading...
IN MIKA'S FREE WEBINAR YOU'LL LEARN...
What divorcing couples, or couples in other types of marital hell, wish they would have known 5-10 years ago!
How your relationship’s biggest struggles are actually your soul calling you to grow…and how to stop shrinking!
How to start having an easier (less MEH) marriage NOW.
How to think about conflict differently and stop avoiding it like the plague.
How to get to the UNDERLYING ISSUES fast….and stop fighting about things that don’t matter.
How to create relationships you LOVE… with more emotional intimacy, fun, & adventure.
How to be CERTAIN you’re doing and saying things that will get you OUT of conflict not more entrenched in the argument that goes nowhere (this includes my amazing CONFLICT MAP…so you don’t get lost again).
4 things that lead to divorce to stop doing today.
Why reading every self-help book under the sun hasn’t changed your marriage.
How to stop winging-it in your life and relationships and dig deep to find clarity, meaning, purpose and feel more soulful connection in your closest relationships.,
I've been working with couples in therapy for almost a decade. I work with couples who are dating, breaking up, looking for premarital counseling, getting ready to have babies, trying to get their life back after baby, couples who can't stand each other, relationships where big betrayal has occurred, I support people through divorce and separation, and even couples blending families.
But let me be clear...I was my biggest guinea pig. There isn't anything I ask my people to do that I haven't done myself.
And this guinea pig grew up with some of the most insidious communication patterns there are. It's why I see relationship demise sort of like a slow-growing cancer. Sneaky...under the surface.
I'm certain, without-a-doubt CLEAR, no freakin' way around it....that I WOULD HAVE BEEN DIVORCED by now if not for the tools, skills, strategies, and mindsets that I use and move through my relationships with everyday.
And all of these, trust me, have me taking a long hard look at ME.
Not all people are meant to stay together (*loud whisper*: my parents!), but I truly believe there's a high percentage of families being broken by a snowball of circumstances that could have been avoided.... By people not knowing how to honor themselves in their marriage.
I have no judgment for people who feel like it's too late. I really don't. I support people through that, too and know that everyone has done the best they can with what they have.
But what "too late" really means in these cases is, "I've spent so much of our lives together not honoring me, that now I don't even know how to do it with you here. I can't even think of doing it with you here. So I have to do it with you THERE." And this BREAKS my FREAKIN' heart. EVERY. TIME. For BOTH people. For the kids.
Most of us were raised by people who didn't know a whole lot about the types of marriages and families we want. Yet most of us hold on to a wish and wait strategy when it comes to our own relationships.
It's what I hear from couples day in, and day out who can pinpoint a time in their relationship YEARS ago when things started to get off-track: "I wanted to get back on track, but I didn't know how..." and "I thought it would get better when__________." So they waited.....and they hoped.....they had good times, and bad.....but the bad started to outweigh the good.
This isn't the sort of thing you want to cross your fingers about.
But they were SO BUSY, and who has time to add one more freakin' thing to their plate?
It's just that your family is probably the most valuable thing on your plate.
But I see this well-documented phenomenon playing out in my practice....MOST people don't get support, take a stand, and fight to create change in their marriage, family, and life until it's too late.
I would like to revolutionize THAT.
It's why I'm inviting you to this training. It will be an hour of me sharing with you some of the things that have turned my relationships around big time. A mix of research-based things and wu-wu-based things. It's what I practice (MOST of the time) and what I preach.
Let's change THIS. You can get your happy back. Your relationship is calling you to grow.