Around the same time I noticed that a lot of the people who were most craving change in their marriages were those with extra-full plates. The 7-year itch is a real thing. And those years with young kids are HARD on relationships.
So the people who needed the consistency and commitment the most were the least able to make it happen. It was incredibly frustrating to watch couples flounder while making it to my office maybe once per month – we’d take one step forward, then 2 steps back. Daily consistent action? |
Relationship Visioning Tool: Creating Conditions for Freedom - When plates are full it's easy to feel like life is running you. If you've thought things like, "I don't even know what I like anymore," this HUGE module (2-hour total completion time) will help you more consciously create a partnership and life that feels good and energizing. AND...you get THIS ENTIRE MODULE by signing up for the $2 1-Week Trial. Cancel anytime during week one and you won't be billed again. CLICK HERE to start your $2 trial.
You-nique Living and Loving: "What is wrong with you? Are you serious right now?" Feel less hurt, anger, and resentment. It's so easy to take our differences personally. In this module we'll discover ways of living and loving meant for who you truly are...not who you should be. We'll also get clear on each other's personality types, strengths, loving styles, things we were born to suck at, and how to create a specific-to-your-unique-needs partnership.
Feelings: Your New BFFs and GPS: Have you ever been blindsided by a partner's BIG feelings that have obviously needed time to grow? Why didn't you tell me?? It can often feel like you've been playing a game, but no one gave you the rules. Or do you cave? Sweep your wants and needs under the rug for the sake of avoiding conflict? In avoiding discomfort we miss opportunities for growth, emotional connection, and intimacy. If this pattern exists in your relationship I'll give you practical and actionable ways to start moving through your relationship and life in a way that is a whole lot less draining and a whole lot more fulfilling.
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The Emotional Intent Clarity Tool & Training: I want you to be able to end an argument BEFORE it happens. Not being able to communicate deeply will keep you in the cycle of having the same, ridiculous arguments on repeat. The FIRST and most overlooked step in clear communication is to clearly understand your own emotional intent and the intent of the person with whom you're interacting. This tool will allow you to deep-dive under the surface of the behaviors you don't like (in yourself or others) and get to the roots of the problems in your relationship.
Ninja-like Communication Skills: Learning and implementing just one of these communication skills is proven to significantly improve scores on measures of relationship satisfaction and we cover EIGHT. Also included is an in-depth training on the Conflict Map Tool. People often ask me, "What do I do next?" or "What should I say next?" when I'm helping them through tough conversations: they know that what's habitual hasn't been beneficial. Breaking old relational habits and coming up with the next best step is about thinking about tough conversations in a WHOLE NEW WAY, and the Conflict Map and Training help you do just that.
Demystifying Sex Drive / Keeping the Spark Alive (nope...I won't just tell you to *do it* more): Differences in drive and the meanings we attach to these differences can slowly poison the relationship, even further disintegrate the drive of the lower-drive person, and decrease emotional intimacy. Even hugs and back rubs can start to feel slimy. This topic is HIGHLY misunderstood. I have yet to lead a workshop or talk on the subject and have a man or woman say, "Oh yeah....I knew all that already".... even in a room full of medical doctors. I hope you leave this module with more compassion and understanding of yourself and your partner.
Radical Happiness Responsibility: In this module we'll cover empowering, healthy, and research-based ways to feel more happiness. I will not tell you to "THINK POSITIVE THOUGHTS." And, most-importantly, we won't just be covering MINDSET (which is a huge piece), but I'll also be giving you ways to wrap your mouth around boundaries and how to speak YOUR unarguable truth.
Cultivating Abundance / Division of Labor: Why is money an easy thing to fight about? Because it's an emotion-laden subject. I'll outline several concrete ways to create habits that will reduce stress and energy drains around the subject of your finances.
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For a FREE TRAINING and more information about why each module is SO GREAT check the next session of my Strategies for Busy Couples Webinar. Over 2000 people have signed up to watch. Emily attended and here's what she had to say....she's a yoga instructor in St. Louis and is pretty wise herself. We're not even related!
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Group Q&A Calls: Monthly group calls where I'll cover EVEN MORE information and you'll get a chance to ask me questions about your specific-to-you stuck spots.
Access to Our Supportive Secret Facebook Group: You'll get access to the exclusive Facebook group for 6 months where new valuable trainings, tips, and strategies for creating your best relationships will be posted every week. We'll also be completing exercises here, reporting on your wins, getting feedback, and I'll be checking in to support you with As to your Qs along the way. |
Conflict Map and Training: Ever feel like you need a map to get out of conflict? Well now you'll have one. This map took so much brain-power to make, it hurt. There are ways to move through conflict that in the short-run will feel better, but in the long-run will mean more conflict. When you're avoiding, shutting down, or sweeping your own wants and needs under the rug to keep from fighting your chances for conflict in the future increase. The longer these practices are in place, the more is under your relationship rug. Use this map to thoroughly resolve issues for good.
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Instant Access to your course portal and Module 1 which includes the comprehensive Relationship Visioning Tool Instant Community in our top-secret FB group where I upload new additional content every week and hold Q&A sessions. You'll have access for 6 MONTHS! Weekly Delivery of 8 in-depth training modules including video, audio, and .pdf exercises over 10 weeks right to your inbox. Consistency is key, and built in to the program. Cancel anytime during 7-day trial Create relationships and a life you love. Vertical Divider
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Instant Access to your course portal and Module 1 which includes the comprehensive Relationship Visioning Tool Instant Community in our top-secret FB group where I upload new additional content every week and hold Q&A sessions. You'll have access for 6 MONTHS! Weekly Delivery of 8 in-depth training modules including video, audio, and .pdf exercises over 10 weeks right to your inbox. Consistency is key, and built in to the program. Cancel anytime during 7-day trial Create relationships and a life you love. |
So here's a little more about me:
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I've done everything in my power to make this the simplest, most comprehensive program for improving relationships available.
I KNOW it works because it's the exact same process that's been behind HUGE relationship turn-arounds in my own life and those of my clients.
However, if you're on the fence...or if you're skeptical if change is even possible for you, then I want to give you every chance to start this program with absolute confidence. That's why I'm giving you a FULL 7 DAYS in the program for just $2. Choose to quit by day 7 and you won't be charged again. View full instructions on how to quit >> |
Instant Access to your course portal and Module 1 which includes the comprehensive Relationship Visioning Tool
Instant Community in our top-secret FB group where I upload new additional content every week and hold Q&A sessions. You'll have access for 6 MONTHS! Weekly Delivery of 8 in-depth training modules including video, audio, and .pdf exercises over 10 weeks right to your inbox. Consistency is key, and built in to the program. Cancel anytime during 7-day trial Create relationships and a life you love. Vertical Divider
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Instant Access to your course portal and Module 1 which includes the comprehensive Relationship Visioning Tool
Instant Community in our top-secret FB group where I upload new additional content every week and hold Q&A sessions. You'll have access for 6 MONTHS! Weekly Delivery of 8 in-depth training modules including video, audio, and .pdf exercises over 10 weeks right to your inbox. Consistency is key, and built in to the program. Cancel anytime during 7-day trial Create relationships and a life you love. |