*whisper* PPSSSTT! HEY!!! You don't need me to be perfect for you to be happy. I think you may have forgotten that. You were born with everything you need to feel good. You have all the ingredients. You're powerful beyond measure! Me?...I'm just some icing on your already fab-YOU-lous cake. Your well-being LEADS me...it's not the other way around.
Now get to baking!! This analogy has made me hungry...