Just want the big master list?

Inside, you’ll find a clear, comprehensive breakdown of everything that keeps a home and family running — from the invisible mental load to the recurring (daily, weekly, monthly, seasonal, and yearly responsibilities. Make the invisible list visible and clearly communicate about who’s doing what.

Each section includes structured columns for frequency, expectations, ownership, and follow‑through, so you and your partner can finally see the full picture, make decisions together, and share the load in a way that feels fair.

BUT, whatever you do, DON'T BUY THIS unless your communication isn't quick to go south about this topic (or other emotionally-laden topics...like money, sex, or in-laws). If this is the case, PLEASE check out our relateWELL Membership that includes the full workshop about HOW to divide tasks without hating each other.